echoing off of this with my agreement. volk is constantly playing up being a victim, and it's exhausting both oocly and icly for people too keep up with. icly my character would never talk to yours, would even just lock him in a closet and let him know what a real prison is like, but your ic/ooc blurring has also made me very actively worry about being judged oocly for things that make sense for my character to do. but even if my character isn't doing any of that, i've watched your character harangue wardens nonstop about one thing or another in an extremely aggressive way without any regard for giving other inmate players a chance to say something first too.
more often then not, volk is the first there, and when anyone replies, he's immediately answering or thread jumping in a way that oocly puts a lot of burden on players to keep track of and icly makes volk's voice forcibly louder than any other inmate in the game. this might directly relate to the time or attention you have placed in the game itself, but a lot of players don't have the same amount of time to tag into new posts or threads as you do, and by always jumping in first, i feel you're also actively discouraging other players from participating. in a lot of ways volk is constantly drowning other people out in network threads, and that's not very fair to players who don't have the same amount of time as you, especially since this game has a small playerbase. i think it would help if you dialed that back, because insomuch as most of us are okay with threadjacking, the way you use it for your character isn't what threadjacking is typically intended for, and that puts a lot of stress on other people too (ic/ooc both), whether you realize it or not.
to bring this back to what pel said, seeing both "getting frustrated when they don't pick up the signs or agree with me" and "the only time this relationship gets toxic is when people lie about what they are or are not ok with me doing" in what you posted is extremely unsettling. people should be allowed to disagree with you without conflict (ic/ooc both), but with the way things have blurred, you don't seem to be okay with that idea at all, and these phrases clearly reflect that. people thinking/feeling different from you, having different ways of handling conflict, and not feeling comfortable talking to you about the things that bother them as frankly as you want them to doesn't make them toxic at all either, especially if they feel smoothing things over without being vocally contrary better protects them as a person.
they don't owe you the truth if they don't feel comfortable enough sharing it with you. most people in dwrp are just here to have fun writing their characters and not get into the nitty gritty of how anyone else plays their character. with whatever other things they might have going on in their lives, they might not even have the bandwidth for that, so i sincerely hope you can take a step back and understand where people might be coming from rather than silently begrudge them for doing what might be best for them as a person.
separate from all that, i know it's your character's thing to troll people and leave giant walls of text, but oocly that can really tire people out. i imagine it's probably fun to write out all the things he's rambling or venting about, but it's become very exhausting to follow as a player. i didn't make it through all his questions because after a point it just felt like there wasn't anything particularly important that my character needed to know. while bucky doesn't reply to everyone, he reads everything posted publicly, and i have to do that reading for him. icly, yes, it's his job to and he has the time to do that, but with my full time job and the week i've had, it's really not fun for me to read through it personally. and this is coming from me as a player with a character that doesn't intend to reply to volk. if i had a character that would reply to him, i would have to, and that feels like so much work for very little substance, tbh. i don't find that fair to put on other players constantly, even if that's the ic thing he would do. something to consider, maybe.
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more often then not, volk is the first there, and when anyone replies, he's immediately answering or thread jumping in a way that oocly puts a lot of burden on players to keep track of and icly makes volk's voice forcibly louder than any other inmate in the game. this might directly relate to the time or attention you have placed in the game itself, but a lot of players don't have the same amount of time to tag into new posts or threads as you do, and by always jumping in first, i feel you're also actively discouraging other players from participating. in a lot of ways volk is constantly drowning other people out in network threads, and that's not very fair to players who don't have the same amount of time as you, especially since this game has a small playerbase. i think it would help if you dialed that back, because insomuch as most of us are okay with threadjacking, the way you use it for your character isn't what threadjacking is typically intended for, and that puts a lot of stress on other people too (ic/ooc both), whether you realize it or not.
to bring this back to what pel said, seeing both "getting frustrated when they don't pick up the signs or agree with me" and "the only time this relationship gets toxic is when people lie about what they are or are not ok with me doing" in what you posted is extremely unsettling. people should be allowed to disagree with you without conflict (ic/ooc both), but with the way things have blurred, you don't seem to be okay with that idea at all, and these phrases clearly reflect that. people thinking/feeling different from you, having different ways of handling conflict, and not feeling comfortable talking to you about the things that bother them as frankly as you want them to doesn't make them toxic at all either, especially if they feel smoothing things over without being vocally contrary better protects them as a person.
they don't owe you the truth if they don't feel comfortable enough sharing it with you. most people in dwrp are just here to have fun writing their characters and not get into the nitty gritty of how anyone else plays their character. with whatever other things they might have going on in their lives, they might not even have the bandwidth for that, so i sincerely hope you can take a step back and understand where people might be coming from rather than silently begrudge them for doing what might be best for them as a person.
separate from all that, i know it's your character's thing to troll people and leave giant walls of text, but oocly that can really tire people out. i imagine it's probably fun to write out all the things he's rambling or venting about, but it's become very exhausting to follow as a player. i didn't make it through all his questions because after a point it just felt like there wasn't anything particularly important that my character needed to know. while bucky doesn't reply to everyone, he reads everything posted publicly, and i have to do that reading for him. icly, yes, it's his job to and he has the time to do that, but with my full time job and the week i've had, it's really not fun for me to read through it personally. and this is coming from me as a player with a character that doesn't intend to reply to volk. if i had a character that would reply to him, i would have to, and that feels like so much work for very little substance, tbh. i don't find that fair to put on other players constantly, even if that's the ic thing he would do. something to consider, maybe.